To expect is one of the most not so correct things to do..
u see.. when one expects, there are 2 results
1) u dont get it. this results in there being quite some unhappy events usually and unhappy feelings, which i shallnt bother elaborating
2) u get it. this results in u being moderately happy for recieving. but it wont result u in being really happy n more imptly, one wont be that grateful for blessing recieved, for it would be taken for granted.
obviously, this is aint so desirable.
when one doesnt expects, there are 2 results.
1) u dont get anything. since one aint expecting anything in the 1st place, nt recieving doesnt affects, so one can continue wif life n all.
2) u get something. this is a call for celebration!! celebration for surge of joy that one gets n the happy feelings there after~ also, it would possibly result in one being grateful n thankful for the surprise :)
* assuming happy stuff only :) *
obviously, this is better.
i have remembered the times of expecting n recieving, as compared to the times of surprises, i didnt feel as happy n enjoyable. surprises are n will always be to me a surprise, filled wif much shock, joy n adrenaline happiness. on stark contrast, the times of expectin n nt recieving r one of the most crushing feelings ever felt.
Conclusion: Dont expect. If recieve, celebrate! If not, just smile n continue walking :)
Sculpted@11:33 pm